It’s Not Quite So Easy to Love Again After A Betrayal

It's Not Quite So Easy to Love Again After A Betrayal

We all want to be loved. However, if you been through a bad relationship, you may find it hard to allow yourself to fall in love again.

But that’s perfectly natural.

If you’ve been betrayed but the one person who you bestowed your love and trust in, you’re going to find it hard to allow someone new in. You’ll have the fear of being betrayed or let down once more.

But listen to me when I say this, You Must Allow Yourself Another Chance for Love.

It’s Not Quite So Easy to Love Again After A Betrayal

You’ve been duped.

You’ve had your heart ripped out through your throat.

You gave yourself to someone who was careless with your soul.

You vow to never allow this to happen to you again.

The walls go up!

Stop Yourself Right There!

Just because you experienced one idiot who didn’t treat you like the Queen you are, don’t let that deter you from finding True Love.

It’s out there.

Trust me on this.

It is better to put ourselves out there than to give up on Love altogether.

We all deserve to be Loved.

We all deserve to allow ourselves to find our One and Only.

Don’t Begrudge Yourself That Opportunity.

I Speak from Experience

I’ve been through the ringer myself.

It’s happened many times before.

Yet I continue to still put myself out there hoping that someday I’ll find my One and Only.

The One who will treat me like a Queen so I can treat him like a King.

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I’m not going to not allow it to happen for me.

I’ve been through the worse hurt ever in my life.

It's Not Quite So Easy to Love Again After A Betrayal

I’ve lost loved ones to illness.

I’ve lost men to other women.

But it doesn’t stop me.

And It Shouldn’t Stop You

You owe it to yourself to continue to try, no matter how scared you may be.

Denying yourself the opportunity of falling in love.

Finding your new best friend. Your life partner.

Would be a tragedy in itself.

Who wants to die alone?

Don’t you want a partner to share all your life experiences with?

Well, you’re not going to have that if you don’t take a chance and put yourself out there.

You Don’t Have to Totally Eliminate Your Walls

But slowly, lower them.

Get to know that someone special.

Allow them to know your deepest, darkest secrets.

Allow them to know your fears, your regrets.

Allow them to touch your heart and your soul.

You owe it to yourself.

It’s Not Quite So Easy to Love Again After A Betrayal

But it’s definitely doable!

Now get out there and let it happen!

6 comments on It’s Not Quite So Easy to Love Again After A Betrayal

  1. lisa thomson-The Great Escape...
    January 17, 2018 at 2:35 pm (2 months ago)

    I love how positive and uplifting this post is, Bren! It’s true that we can’t give up but we sure feel like it after heartbreak. Being vulnerable is VERY hard when we’ve been hurt so badly. Good for you for getting back up. You’re a Queen!!

    • Bren
      January 17, 2018 at 3:13 pm (2 months ago)

      Aww thank you, Lisa. I tell it like it is. I know some women, and men, are deathly afraid to even put themselves out there again. They are afraid of getting hurt. But to deny ourselves the chance at love, real love, would be tragic. Not everyone is a bad person. We need to give them a chance and be open to falling in love again. You know this…..I wanted to spread it. 😉

  2. coriramos
    January 17, 2018 at 3:44 pm (2 months ago)

    Hey B! I agree with Lisa, this is a positive and uplifting post. I’m sure you’ll find your one and only, he’s out there!

    Love ya!

    • Bren
      January 17, 2018 at 3:47 pm (2 months ago)

      Thanks, Cori! I’m glad you feel so. Oh indeed, he’s out there and I just may have found him. 😉 hehe

  3. Nataly Auger
    January 17, 2018 at 7:23 pm (2 months ago)

    Hey B! You’re right, nobody should go through life without love! I’m sure that you’ll find your One and Only someday! Great post, gf! 😉

    • Bren
      January 18, 2018 at 3:18 pm (2 months ago)

      Thanks, Nat! Oh, you’re right! I’ll find him someday and make him mine forever. Guaranteed to happen. 🙂


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